Post a father taking 
Today I speak to fathers adopters.
Here I am 14 months since our return from China with our precious daughter Becky Raomi ..... Today I take the time to tell you that the success of the first year of our new life through the emotional stability of the couple. When I say I speak of a stable nucleus should be between 2 adults who represent the foundation of the home, a kernel that will allow you to support one another no matter the circumstances.
A child who comes from elsewhere carries with him a past which we do not know completely and many times we do not know him at all ... A child born outside has a tremendous need for a father now of a father who supports his wife in the most difficult moments. Welcome a new member of the family to be born in the home or be born elsewhere, always brings a lot of very important changes to our lives.
We men often have difficulty to step back, take a few days off after the birth or after the arrival of a child who comes from a distant land.
Today I can say that our first year with Becky is a success. You will ask me if I'm making you believe that the arrival of our daughter has not switched our lives and that everything was rosy ....... my answer is no. We have lived through quite difficult, like the first month after we arrived, Becky was not sleeping well, it was night terrors after surgery she could not sleep at all, it was not easy either, but our little princess, which I consider a frontline fighter has always sweating it out and go through everything. she realized that despite the pain and suffering a father and a mother who are willing to show love and support despite the difficulties of life and unconditionally.
I firmly believe that the 6 months I spent at home were very beneficial to the stability, adaptability and dedication of our daughter while solidifying the relationship.
I encourage you all Dad .... the time you'll take together with your child and your spouse can only bring lot of positive results sooner or later .... be patient, take care of you ........................... There is nothing more beautiful than the adoption
